Understandably Nervous Since Upsetting Relationships Expiredįirst, let’s put things in perspective: you had two shitty relationships in a row. What things should I be mindful of as I venture back into that world? What’s a good way to be deliberate without moving at a glacial pace? What should I be asking myself as I begin to form new attachments, especially after showing such bad judgment in the recent past? But I love being in a relationship and I want to be in one again. As things stand now, I’ve never felt so mistrustful of people, and I’ve never doubted by own choices so strongly. 83s, and that we have to “round someone up to The One.” But it seems like I’ve been “rounding up” some numbers that were too low. I love what you’ve said about how there is no “The One” out there for us, only. My friends and therapist all pointed out the red flags, but I was apparently blind to them. Experiences that have made me question my own judgment and ability to set good boundaries. I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences.
